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EMDR Therapy in Washington, DC

Some memories don't become the past. They stay loaded — a smell, a tone of voice, an anniversary sets them off and the body responds as if it's happening now. That's not weakness; it's a filing error. The memory was never processed into 'over.'

EMDR — Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing — exists for exactly this. McVey is EMDR-certified and uses EMDR as one part of an integrative approach, rather than as a standalone protocol.

How EMDR works

EMDR uses bilateral stimulation — typically guided eye movements — while a target memory is held lightly in mind. The pairing lets the brain do what it failed to do at the time: reprocess the experience so it files as memory rather than live threat. What changes isn't the fact of what happened; it's the charge it carries.

A course of EMDR is structured in phases: history and treatment planning, stabilization and resourcing, then processing — at a pace your system can actually use. You remain fully present and in control throughout.

What we use EMDR for

  • PTSD and single-incident trauma
  • Complex and childhood trauma, carefully paced
  • Military, veteran, and first-responder trauma
  • Betrayal trauma and relational wounds
  • Anxiety and performance blocks with a traumatic root
  • Trauma affecting intimacy and sexual health

Practical details

EMDR works in person at our downtown office and via telehealth — remote EMDR is well-established with adapted bilateral techniques. Sessions are 55 minutes, $215 with sliding scale from $150–194. If we recommend EMDR, we'll explain exactly why and what the arc looks like for your history.

FAQ

Common questions

No — this is EMDR's most misunderstood advantage. Processing doesn't require narration; brief orienting to the memory is enough. Many clients choose EMDR precisely because talking it through repeatedly hasn't helped or isn't tolerable.

No. You're awake, aware, and in control the entire time. The eye movements support memory reprocessing; nothing is implanted, suggested, or done to you.

Honest answer: it depends on the history. A single-incident trauma may process in a handful of sessions after preparation; layered histories take longer. We'll give you a real estimate after assessment and update it openly.

Yes — remote protocols using visual or tactile bilateral stimulation are well-established, and we use them routinely with DC clients.

Ready to begin?

The 15-minute consult is where most people begin.